Why A Man must Love His Wife *More He Loves His Father and Mother*


 

GENESIS 2:24
 

[NKJV]

Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
 

[TLV]

This is why a man leaves his father and his mother and clings to his wife; and they become one flesh.



The "Bond (Connection)" between a man and his wife should be greater than the bond (connection) between the man and his father/mother. This is because "Taken out of man" is stronger than "Came out of man."
 

*1* Taken out of man — Woman or Wife
 

*2* Came out of man/woman — Son of man or daughter.
 

Her being taken out of the man was naturally a breach, including taking something that would never have wanted to leave the man's body and creating hole/way where there should be no way or hole, just for the purpose of taking a man's rib in ways that were not according to the natural reproductive system. That was unlike the way children are formed and birthed, with reproductive organs and hormones pleased to get them out, first from the man into the woman, and then nine months later the woman is pleased to have them separated from her as deliverance/freedom for her.
 

The bond that naturally never wanted to be separated is stronger than the issues that people enjoyed, felt relieved, or celebrated because of the separation. A man has some kind of feelings when his sperms or semen have accumulated, and he gets relief when he discharges them; a woman has menstrual pains because she needs her egg fertilized so that the egg can begin the process of coming out of her. If fertilized, then months later she feels pains (labor) because she has a child in her, but as soon as the child comes out, she has joy and relief for the fruit has come out of her womb. But she will never wish for that child that came out to return back into her womb: No man re-enters his mother's womb.
 

So a man leaving his father and mother is a great relief or achievement; but a man joining or clinging to his wife, especially after leaving his father and mother, is also a great relief or achievement. Father and Mother were the man's first home but he had to leave, beginning with leaving his father into his mother; but finally his last home is in clinging to his wife until death.
 

Don't let your mom or dad be the reason you are having problems with your husband or wife. At their womb, God was in the business of putting "asunder" or "separation" between you and your mother and father, as it is written:
 

[Galatians 1:15] - "But when it pleased God, who separated me from my mother's womb, and called me by his grace,"
 

[Genesis 25:23] — "And the LORD said to her, "Two nations are in your womb, and two manner of people shall be separated from your bowels; and the one people shall be stronger than the other people; and the elder shall serve the younger."
 

I believe you saw "Separated" or "Putting asunder" a child from its mother's womb. She may boast that she carried the child for nine months, and so she has authority or right in the child than his/her wife/husband. But follow God, who put asunder between the man and his father and mother, saying,
 

[Mark 10:6‭-‬12 NKJV] — But from the beginning of the creation, God ‘made them male and female.’ ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” In the house His disciples also asked Him again about the same matter. So He said to them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.”
 

To separate from your father and mother as a man is called "Advancement;" but to separate from your wife as a man is called "Divorce" or "Adultery."
 

The bond connection between a man and his/her biological parents is described as "One Blood" with them; but the bond connection between a man and his/her wife is described as "One Flesh" or "One Body" with her. The Bond called "One Flesh" or "One Body" is stronger and greater than the Bond called "One Blood." Having "One Blood" with another person does not make us one body; but having one flesh makes us one body.
 

This is even more reason you should run away from fornication or sexual intercourse in immortality: Because it goes beyond making you one blood into making you one flesh or one body with her. Hence, Body-Count, not Blood count.
 

Better to do blood transfusion, having the blood of a whore/harlot inserted into your blood stream, for that will only make you to be one blood with the harlot; than for you to have sexual intercourse with a strange woman or harlot and become one flesh or one body with her.
 

[1 Corinthians 6:16‭-‬18 FBV] — Don't you realize that anyone who has sex with a prostitute becomes “one body” with her? Remember that Scripture says, “The two will become one body.” But whoever is joined to the Lord is one with Him in spirit! Stay away from sexual immorality! All other sins that people commit are outside of the body, but sexual immorality is a sin against your own body.
 

I hope I find another occasion to show you how your body is your greatest temple or church building to God on earth; and there's no how whatever you do in any temple, church, cathedral, altar, can weigh greater than what you have done within your body. You cannot be keeping a church or temple holy when you have not kept your body holy. You are inside that body even when you are in any temple. Honor and sanctify your own body as if you are doing so for the house of God, even His holy Temple.
 

[1 Corinthians 6:19‭-‬20 FBV] — Don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit that is within you, that you received from God? You don't belong to yourself—a price was paid for you! So glorify God in your body!